Step Two: Mirror, Mirror

According to the Millionaire Matchmaker, Step Two of finding my perfect mate is looking at myself on the outside. While this is a harsh reality, when it comes to attracting the right person, whats on the outside DOES matter. 

I know that I am a cute girl, who is well put together, but I know there is room for improvement. It seems that over the past few months I have let the best of my emotions get to me. You see, Savvy is a emotional/stress eater. Today I made a first step in getting on track physically/mentally. I took the plunge and attended a Weight Watchers meeting. I was kinda surprised to see how many size 6, 8 and size 10 girls were there. I'm not lying when I say there were several young, attractive girls in my meeting. I made quick friends with these girls and we made an agreement to attend the same weekly meetings. I do much better at taking care of myself when I have someone/something to hold me accountable. Weight Watchers is a program that is do-able for me, and can keep incorporate my social lifestyle. I know that I feel more confidant as a woman, when I feel good on the outside. My skinny jeans are not currently making me feel too skinny. How can you attract a man if you feel like a roly poly?

The book also discusses several outer personality profiles aka the energy a hot woman exudes. The profiles include: Cute and Perky, The Girl Next Door, Sexpot, Exotic, Intellectual. I think I have been all of these at one time- well maybe this white girl hasn't ever been exotic.But, I think when it comes to being my attractive outside self that I fall somewhere between Cute and Perky and the Girl Next Door. When I meet guys I am super friendly and upbeat, but I'm also pretty down to earth and able to talk about anything from sports to Family Guy. 

When you feel good about yourself on the outside, you exude a sexy confidence that no one can deny. I know that I need to spend some time building myself up by identifying my positive assets and working on the areas that could use a little improvement. This chapter made me realize how ready I was to start feeling strong, sexy, and confident again! The better I feel about myself on the inside, the more likely I am to strut it on the outside!