There are lots of reasons why I loathe Sundays- having to go to work the next day, the last day of the weekend to sleep in, grocery shopping, ironing, oh and the ever so common problem of nothing being on tv. But lately I have been hating Sundays more then usual. Sundays for me have become days of solitude, and I don't like it. Somehow around 2:00, I make my way back to my lil cave of an apartment, get online, start up my DVR and get trapped into a feeling of it just being me.
Sundays are a day for relationships, and definitely when a single person feels the most alone. I remember the best part of the past two years was hanging out with that special someone in your life on Sunday afternoons. Shopping for groceries, going to a low key dinner, and then relaxing on the couch together... that is what makes Sundays quaint. I didn't realize until today how much I miss having someone to end the weekend with. Sundays used to more of a fun day, because you had one more day to spend time with the one you cherish most.
Watching "It's A Brad, Brad World" and being on Match.com looking at thousands of pictures (most of them not attractive) doesn't have the same vibe. It definitely doesn't make you feel warm and tingly inside! Lol! Instead you feel more alone and reach the verge of feeling somewhat depressed. So how does a singleton get out of this Sunday funkday? How does being solo on a Sunday become fun again?
Should I start a Sunday Singles Support Group (SSSG)?
To my married friends- sit on the couch tonight and hold hands with your boo when you are watching tv. Appreciate that warm body next to you.
To my single friends- call a sister up, let's go do something!
Stay tuned for my new mission in life- Making Sundays Fun Again!


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